It’s hard trying to turn over a new leaf, trying to change, when all those around you refuse to see you as anything more than the person you once were. There you are trying to make progress in life and there they are reminding you of the way you were in the past, judging you based on those actions. How can you become a better person if people always seem to find ways to bring back the worst moments of your past? 

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